Do your curls end up wonky, meaning they’re misshaped and form an unusual pattern? I’m sharing the causes of this and solutions to get more even ringlets or waves and enhance your curl definition.
Cause #1: Hair is not wet enough
Solution: Mist hair with water as you’re styling
I start with clean, towel-dried hair. I always mist my hair down with a continuous spray bottle. If your hair is too dry when you apply your products, it will be stringy and it won’t clump, which can cause misshaped curls.
If you don’t have a spray bottle, you can just wet your hair with your hands under the tap.
I prefer that my hair be more on the damp side so that my scalp is not soaked and dripping, but my hair is evenly wet and there isn’t any frizz.
- Curlsmith Continuous Spray Bottle
Step 1: Apply stylers to clean, wet hair
For my styling products, I first use a curl cream for moisture and to help clump the curls such as the AG Re:Coil which helps improve curl retention and clump the curls.
Then I section my hair and use the AG Liquid Effects Gel. Gel is essential for creating definition and holding the curl shape in place. Ensure you’re evenly applying your gel and taking it all the way to the roots, avoiding the scalp. If we don’t apply products to our roots, the hair there will be naked and it may not be as defined since products help to enhance the curl shape.
- AG Re:coil Curl Activator
- AG Liquid Effects Extra Firm Styling Lotion
Cause #2: No styling technique used
Solutions: Use curl-enhancing techniques to encourage curl formation
While there is nothing wrong with just leaving your curls as is and you totally can if you prefer the way they currently look, then you can go straight to drying your hair.
However, if you’re struggling with wonky-shaped curls and you want to enhance them further, you can use styling techniques such as brush styling and finger coiling.
Step 2: Use a styling technique
I prefer to do a combination of both on my curls for maximum definition. While my hair is in sections, I use a brush to define the curls. This will help encourage the curl formation because it’s applying light tension.
You need to use a brush that has dense bristles to give it a bit of tension. If you have a regular hair brush, you can press your palm against the hair as you glide down to apply some gentle tension.
The Tangle Teezer has a smooth texture which helps reduce breakage. Also, make sure your hair has plenty of slip. If you’re using a gel that is super thick and hard to work with, apply your gel after you brush style instead of before like I do.
I also like to mix in some finger coiling. This technique just involves twirling the hair around your finger to help it spiral. This is ideal for tighter curl patterns and short hair.
I will do this sometimes after brush styling an area that doesn’t bounce back correctly.
I also do this around my hairline where I have a lot of short baby hairs. It can be hard to define small areas with a brush, so finger coiling is best.
- Tangle Teezer Naturally Curly Detangling Brush
Cause #3: Brush styling incorrectly or in the wrong direction
Solutions: Determine the direction of your natural curl pattern and adjust the angle of your brush if needed.
This may be one of the biggest causes of wonky curls, and that’s brush styling incorrectly, usually due to not holding your brush correctly or going in the wrong direction.
I have an entire video on troubleshooting brush styling where I cover this in more detail, but a lot of it is just trial and error.
You can either brush style vertically or horizontally. When brush styling vertically, you can curl in the direction towards your face or away from your face. Your curls may change direction and alternate. If a section doesn’t curl, try the other direction until it does.
When brush styling horizontally, you can turn your wrist under or over. Try both and see which one results in the best curls. Horizontal sections usually lead to wonky curls for me because my curls often will alternate directions, and the horizontal method curls them all in the same direction.
It’s also common for curls to change direction. This can happen when curls are still damaged and recovering. Overall, don’t stress about it and just pick a direction. When my curls are really turning out weird in each direction, I will just finger coil instead.
Reminder, curls don’t have to be perfect! These techniques are just to help you out with problem areas. You don’t even have to do your entire head.
Cause #4: Plopping and scrunching
Solutions: Skip scrunching altogether or skip plopping and try microplopping instead. Pay close attention to how the hair is being pressed up when scrunching.
Once I’m done brush styling, I will usually scrunch my hair with a hair towel or just with my hands.
Scrunching can cause wonky-shaped curls for some people, and I often see it more in people who have large curl clumps that are too big for their natural curl thickness. If you think this may be causing your curls to be misshaped, try skipping scrunching altogether.
- Hair RePear Ultimate Hair Towel
Cause #5: Air drying before diffusing
Solutions: Diffuse right away until your gel cast sets and the curl shape forms, then finish air drying if needed or diffuse until fully dry.
This next cause of wonky, misshaped curls is a simple switch you can make in your routine that makes the biggest difference. If you let your hair start to dry before you diffuse, then you’re not going to have as much shrinkage and your curls may dry wonky.
If you prefer a more elongated look, then you can air dry first. However, if you like to enhance your shrinkage, then you need to start diffusing right away.
When you air dry and then try and change the shape after during diffusing, you will notice your curls don’t spring up and that’s because they’re already set.
Step 3: Diffuse until dry
It’s important to understand how the hydrogen bonds in our hair work. These bonds are responsible for the curl pattern or the shape and structure of our hair. They temporarily break when our hair becomes wet, and that’s why the hair becomes longer and straightens out when it’s wet, and they reform when our hair dries and that’s why our curls spring back up.
Diffusing improves curl definition because it sets those hydrogen bonds quicker so the curls retain their shape, especially when using a gel that forms a cast. Once the cast forms, you really can’t change the shape or shrink the hair up more.
If you want to encourage shrinkage to enhance your curls, you will need to scrunch your curls upwards in the diffuser while it’s drying. While hovering your diffuser may reduce frizz, if you only hover it will not increase shrinkage unless you place your hair over a surface or cup your hair as it starts to dry.
Cause #6: Curls incorrectly placed in the diffuser bowl
Solutions: Pay attention to how your hair settles in your diffuser
Another one of the top reasons for wonky curls is diffusing improperly or the way that you’re placing each section into your diffuser bowl.
I use the Curlsmith Defrizzion Hair Dryer which has a super large diffuser head, and it’s flat. The design of this diffuser is specifically made to prevent misshaped curls and tangles.
Since it’s so large, I’m able to fit almost all of my hair into the bowl at once. I still work in sections though because I want to be able to evenly place the curls. Watch closely at how the curls wind up within the diffuser. It’s almost like an accordion.
While I do some upside-down diffusing for volume, I also prefer to diffuse upright because this prevents wonky curls underneath. When right-side-up, I’m able to tilt my head to the side and ensure the full length of the hair gets pressed up into the diffuser.
If your hair doesn’t spiral, it is common for the waves to bend in various ways, and that’s ok!
Also, make sure that your hair dryer is not blowing too hard which can move the hair around too much. I usually always have my hair dryer on the lowest speed setting and the highest heat setting, or medium heat. The Curlsmith hair dryer doesn’t get too hot so the highest heat setting isn’t too hot.
- Curlsmith Defrizzion Hair Dryer & XXL Diffuser
One other tip is to turn off your hair dryer, then place your section in carefully, and then turn it back on. This is called the “pixie diffusing” technique and helps reduce frizz and wonky curls.
If you’re short on time and need to run, I recommend finishing with air drying but you want to make sure you feel a cast on your hair and you like how your curl shape looks. Once this is set in place, you can finish air drying. It’s better to diffuse for 5-10 minutes first and then to air dry the whole time.
The bottom line is diffusing gives you more control over how your curls turn out.
How to fix a wonky curl after diffusing
Have you ever gotten a wonky curl after diffusing? It’s common and can be fixed if it’s bothering you. Grab the curl and lightly mist it with water, but don’t saturate it. Redefine it with a brush or finger coil until the curl shape is corrected. Then, diffuse it for a few seconds to set the shape. You can try air drying, but it could become misshaped.
If it’s still wonky, don’t worry about it! Curls are going to be imperfect.
Cause #7: Curls are damaged or are over moisturized
Solutions: Use products with protein and/or bond-building ingredients
If your curls are damaged or if they are over-moisturized, they won’t hold their usual shape and won’t bounce up. Damage from heat, bleach, etc. weakens the structure of the hair which can cause it to lose its shape.
Also, if you are using products that are too heavy for your hair type or overusing deep conditioner, you could be over-moisturizing your hair. Over-moisturized hair is limp, doesn’t bounce back, and can even feel gummy.
Incorporate products with protein in your routine such as using a gel that contains protein ingredients, or using a deep conditioner with protein 1-4 times per month. Proteins help provide structure to the hair.
Bond-repairing products are similar in that they strengthen the hair but they also repair damage from the inside.
- Living Proof Triple Bond Complex
- Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk Bond Building Mask
- Curlsmith Bond Curl Rehab Salve
- Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair!™ Deep Conditioning Hair Mask
Cause #8: You need a trim
Solutions: Get trims regularly to maintain curl shape. Shorter hair will bounce up more.
Whether you have damage or your hair is healthy, if you’re overdue for a trim your curls may not spring up like normal. Curls can appear straighter on the ends and not be defined when they are damaged. Get frequent trims to maintain bouncy ends and evenly defined curls.
Reminder: curls are naturally wonky sometimes
Remember, curls are going to vary in shape and size, and can even change direction naturally. Embrace the natural texture that you have and incorporate these tips here and there if you want to further enhance your natural pattern.
For more help, watch my video on How to Get Curlier Roots if you’re struggling with getting curls at the top.